Showing posts with label keeping your relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label keeping your relationship. Show all posts
Tuesday, 9 March 2010
What If A Partner Leaves You During Rough Times
What should you do if a partner leaves you during rough times, such as after you've been fired from your job or hurt in a car accident?
If that happens, you should ask yourself the following question:
Did he/she leave you because of your actions, or did he/she leave you because of your situation?
This is a VERY important question!
If he/she has left you because of the "mistakes" you've made in the relationship such as being too needy or continuing to "push" him/her when it was clear that he/she needed space, then simply use my "Reverse Your Breakup" program to get her back.
But if he/she had broken up with you because of your situation (examples: He/She does not want to be with a girl/guy in a wheelchair or a girl/guy with no money), then you should be GLAD that he/she's gone. He/She's really not worth your while. (If you don't believe that, drop me an email and I'll take a look at your case.)
But either way, you should learn more about women and dating before you do anything else!
If that happens, you should ask yourself the following question:
Did he/she leave you because of your actions, or did he/she leave you because of your situation?
This is a VERY important question!
If he/she has left you because of the "mistakes" you've made in the relationship such as being too needy or continuing to "push" him/her when it was clear that he/she needed space, then simply use my "Reverse Your Breakup" program to get her back.
But if he/she had broken up with you because of your situation (examples: He/She does not want to be with a girl/guy in a wheelchair or a girl/guy with no money), then you should be GLAD that he/she's gone. He/She's really not worth your while. (If you don't believe that, drop me an email and I'll take a look at your case.)
But either way, you should learn more about women and dating before you do anything else!
Friday, 19 February 2010
Are You In An Abusive Relationship?
Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself.
1) Has your partner ever been sexually abused as a child?
2) Does your partner blame you when he/she does something bad?
(As in it’s always "YOUR" fault.)
3) Is your partner chronically angry or depressed?
4) Is your partner unpredictable?
5) Has your partner ever abused you?
6) Does your partner have double standards for your behavior and her behavior?
7) Has your partner ever tried to manipulate you?
8) Is your partner incompetent in daily living skills? (Loses job after job, etc.)
9) Does your partner hang around a “bad” group of people?
10) Does your partner exhibit any anti-social behavior?
If you have answered "yes" to any of these questions, you should be extremely careful with your relationship. All of these "symptoms", except for number one - which is okay if he/she has put it behind him/her or learned to manage his/her pain - are deadly.
1) Has your partner ever been sexually abused as a child?
2) Does your partner blame you when he/she does something bad?
(As in it’s always "YOUR" fault.)
3) Is your partner chronically angry or depressed?
4) Is your partner unpredictable?
5) Has your partner ever abused you?
6) Does your partner have double standards for your behavior and her behavior?
7) Has your partner ever tried to manipulate you?
8) Is your partner incompetent in daily living skills? (Loses job after job, etc.)
9) Does your partner hang around a “bad” group of people?
10) Does your partner exhibit any anti-social behavior?
If you have answered "yes" to any of these questions, you should be extremely careful with your relationship. All of these "symptoms", except for number one - which is okay if he/she has put it behind him/her or learned to manage his/her pain - are deadly.
Friday, 12 February 2010
How To Stay Together With Your Partner
Here are a couple of tips on how to keep your partner's interest in you high:
a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.
Big mistake.
Attraction comes and goes. Just because your partner was attracted to you when he/she first met you doesn’t mean he/she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do anything to keep the attraction high.
b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying attention to their women and end up losing them.
Don’t make the same mistake.
Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things. Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…” Compliment your partner when he/she does something good.
c) Talk to Partner: Have at least one good talk every week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park. The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more important.
This will help you solidify the bond with him/her. I don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call your partner”, etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your partner once a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns sour.
d) Remain in control: Some guys/ladies use the techniques I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy man/woman they’ve always wanted, only to give up their control and start kissing their partner's ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in control of yourself still applies after the initial courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man/woman!
By the way, remember that when I say “stay in control”, I don’t mean you should “control your partner”. What I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.
e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please your partner with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love. I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper your partner with money. It will eventually ruin your relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.
a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.
Big mistake.
Attraction comes and goes. Just because your partner was attracted to you when he/she first met you doesn’t mean he/she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do anything to keep the attraction high.
b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying attention to their women and end up losing them.
Don’t make the same mistake.
Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things. Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…” Compliment your partner when he/she does something good.
c) Talk to Partner: Have at least one good talk every week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park. The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more important.
This will help you solidify the bond with him/her. I don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call your partner”, etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your partner once a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns sour.
d) Remain in control: Some guys/ladies use the techniques I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy man/woman they’ve always wanted, only to give up their control and start kissing their partner's ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in control of yourself still applies after the initial courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man/woman!
By the way, remember that when I say “stay in control”, I don’t mean you should “control your partner”. What I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.
e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please your partner with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love. I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper your partner with money. It will eventually ruin your relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.
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