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Monday, 1 March 2010
Dating Tips For Men - Attracting Beautiful Women Without Effort
Most guys can find themselves falling in love with the idea of being able to attract beautiful women without much or any effort at all. Yet, you and I both know that this is more a fantasy than anything else. When you want to attract beautiful women, the truth is, you are going to have to put forth some effort. They key is to learn exactly where you will get your best rewards for the efforts that you DO put in. More men make the mistake of putting all of their efforts with women into doing the WRONG things to try and win her over.
Here are some dating tips for men that you NEED to consider if you want to start attracting beautiful women with minimal efforts:
1. You have to work on YOU first. Most guys want to just read a book or watch a video and hope that some magical answer will somehow be revealed to them. Wouldn't that be nice? One of the things that you HAVE to do as a man is to work on yourself. Get YOUR life to where you want it to be. This will give you the sense of natural confidence and security, which are both very attractive qualities to a woman. You have to be able to have the right mindset to start attracting beautiful women and it DOES start with YOU!
2. You must be able to demonstrate your alpha male traits through your body language. Now, I know that most men have a bit of weariness when they think about learning how to use body language to attract a woman. It sounds so complicated and makes you think that you will have to study for months before you will see any real results. This is NOT true. Some simple and basic understanding of how to use body language to attract a woman can easily produce amazing results. You will be able to attract beautiful women, as they are almost DRAWN to YOU.
3. You MUST be able to talk to a woman in a way that makes her feel attracted from the get go. If you feel as though you do not have the conversational skills to attract a woman, then you will want to get some practice. Go out and pick a woman at random and just start a conversation with her. She doesn't have to that hot when you first start out. The whole point is to gain confidence when you are around women and learn how to talk to women in a way that makes them feel attraction for YOU.
4. Flirting with a woman has to seem like it just FLOWS. When flirting with a woman, it should never seem like a hassle or a chore. You shouldn't feel dread at the thought of flirting with a woman. The more experience that you gain in this department or area, you will be able to see that not only is it enjoyable, it's also one of the best and easiest ways to start attracting beautiful women without much effort. A beautiful woman will naturally respond to a man that can flirt with her in a way that makes her FEEL something wonderful.
5. You have to be able to handle rejection from a woman. Let's face it, you are going to get the cold shoulder from a woman from time to time. It's just the way that it goes. Some guys when they get rejected from a woman, become hung up on her. And they waste all of their time trying to go after the one woman that does NOT want to be with them. Talk about wasting your efforts. You have to be able to move on with the breeze and approach the next woman.
6. You must have the RIGHT appearance. Now, you don't have to go out to the mall and spend all of your money on the trendiest clothes and an overpriced haircut. The thing is, you just want to appear like you are clean and put together. Most women are not that into being with a guy that seems like a slob of sorts. So, don't give off that impression. Just keep your appearance looking neat and make sure that you SMELL good. Pick up some good cologne and this should do the trick.
7. Don't start comparing yourself to other guys. This can damage your elf esteem really quickly. If you start to see improvements in your personal life, just focus on this. Don't allow yourself to down play your success with women by comparing yourself to other men. You just want to make sure that YOUR experiences with women are what you want them to be, or at least that they are on track.
Trying to master this area of your life, and start attracting beautiful women without much effort can seem like a tall task at first. When you break things down and learn what really works to attract a woman, you can see that there are certain things that you can do that will spark attraction with a woman almost instantly.
This will help to make you turn into the kind of man that can attract beautiful women without a whole lot of efforts. It doesn't have to be just a dream or a fantasy for YOU. Any man can learn how to develop the kind of alpha male traits that attract beautiful women with ease. You have to ask yourself, are you ready to start now?
How badly do YOU want to start attracting beautiful women?
Get Your FREE Report that Details the 7 Most Important Concepts You Have to Know to Attract and Seduce Women. Learn how to get the girl and get Dating Tips For Men
Here are some dating tips for men that you NEED to consider if you want to start attracting beautiful women with minimal efforts:
1. You have to work on YOU first. Most guys want to just read a book or watch a video and hope that some magical answer will somehow be revealed to them. Wouldn't that be nice? One of the things that you HAVE to do as a man is to work on yourself. Get YOUR life to where you want it to be. This will give you the sense of natural confidence and security, which are both very attractive qualities to a woman. You have to be able to have the right mindset to start attracting beautiful women and it DOES start with YOU!
2. You must be able to demonstrate your alpha male traits through your body language. Now, I know that most men have a bit of weariness when they think about learning how to use body language to attract a woman. It sounds so complicated and makes you think that you will have to study for months before you will see any real results. This is NOT true. Some simple and basic understanding of how to use body language to attract a woman can easily produce amazing results. You will be able to attract beautiful women, as they are almost DRAWN to YOU.
3. You MUST be able to talk to a woman in a way that makes her feel attracted from the get go. If you feel as though you do not have the conversational skills to attract a woman, then you will want to get some practice. Go out and pick a woman at random and just start a conversation with her. She doesn't have to that hot when you first start out. The whole point is to gain confidence when you are around women and learn how to talk to women in a way that makes them feel attraction for YOU.
4. Flirting with a woman has to seem like it just FLOWS. When flirting with a woman, it should never seem like a hassle or a chore. You shouldn't feel dread at the thought of flirting with a woman. The more experience that you gain in this department or area, you will be able to see that not only is it enjoyable, it's also one of the best and easiest ways to start attracting beautiful women without much effort. A beautiful woman will naturally respond to a man that can flirt with her in a way that makes her FEEL something wonderful.
5. You have to be able to handle rejection from a woman. Let's face it, you are going to get the cold shoulder from a woman from time to time. It's just the way that it goes. Some guys when they get rejected from a woman, become hung up on her. And they waste all of their time trying to go after the one woman that does NOT want to be with them. Talk about wasting your efforts. You have to be able to move on with the breeze and approach the next woman.
6. You must have the RIGHT appearance. Now, you don't have to go out to the mall and spend all of your money on the trendiest clothes and an overpriced haircut. The thing is, you just want to appear like you are clean and put together. Most women are not that into being with a guy that seems like a slob of sorts. So, don't give off that impression. Just keep your appearance looking neat and make sure that you SMELL good. Pick up some good cologne and this should do the trick.
7. Don't start comparing yourself to other guys. This can damage your elf esteem really quickly. If you start to see improvements in your personal life, just focus on this. Don't allow yourself to down play your success with women by comparing yourself to other men. You just want to make sure that YOUR experiences with women are what you want them to be, or at least that they are on track.
Trying to master this area of your life, and start attracting beautiful women without much effort can seem like a tall task at first. When you break things down and learn what really works to attract a woman, you can see that there are certain things that you can do that will spark attraction with a woman almost instantly.
This will help to make you turn into the kind of man that can attract beautiful women without a whole lot of efforts. It doesn't have to be just a dream or a fantasy for YOU. Any man can learn how to develop the kind of alpha male traits that attract beautiful women with ease. You have to ask yourself, are you ready to start now?
How badly do YOU want to start attracting beautiful women?
Get Your FREE Report that Details the 7 Most Important Concepts You Have to Know to Attract and Seduce Women. Learn how to get the girl and get Dating Tips For Men
Monday, 18 January 2010
How to Attract Women: How to Impress Women
Renee Grant-Williams, a celebrity vocal coach, says, "The people we deal with in life come to know us by the three ways in which we present ourselves: (a) how we look; (b) what we say; and (c) how we say it." Obviously, this applies just as much to women as it does to men. If not more.
So if you want to impress women, you're gonna have to carefully think about how you present yourself. Let's look at each category.
A. How We Look
Whether you like it or not, dress is crucial. It says a lot about you: whether you care about how you look, or you don't. But you don't have to dress like a Hollywood celebrity to look good.
Here are some tips on how to dress for success:
1. Get a female friend or sister to help you pick your clothes.
If you don't know what to wear, get someone who does know! Ask a female friend or acquaintance to go shopping with you. She's sure to be flattered, and if you reward her with a gift certificate or DVD, she'll be all the more motivated to help you out.
2. Check out the latest styles.
Go to the bar or club and see what others are wearing. Observe what the guys who do well with women wear. Look in magazines and catalogs and see what it's in style.
3. Wear what conforms to your identity.
Hey, if you're the hardworking, businessman type, wear formal clothes that accent your career. If you're the snowboarder/skater type, wear grungy clothes that accent your loose, laid-back persona. And if you're really into music, don't be afraid to express yourself with the types of clothes that rock stars and musicians like to wear! You can't force a style upon yourself; clothes are a form of marketing, so market yourself like you would a product, in the way that best shows what you're all about.
The same goes for your hair: If you want to convey a clean-cut, crisp image, then you might want to shave and cut your hair short. But if you're trying to convey a rebel image, a goatee, long hair, and tattoos are probably in order.
And speaking of tattoos, don't forget that they are an ACCESSORY that further helps you to market yourself. Tats, jewelry, and even hats are great ways to mold your image to the man you want to present to women. If you're a snowboarder, for example, a wool hat says "Cool". Or if you're an aspiring rapper or musician, a doo rag has a place in your wardrobe. Consider the accessories that best conform to you as a person.
B. What We Say
Here are some great topics to talk about:
* Your dreams.
Let a girl know that you have a purpose and direction in your life, that you're not a wandering bum!
* Funny stories.
Humor is a great aphrodisiac. Think about some funny things that have happened in your life. But make sure your delivery is good--more below.
* Her.
The Dalai Lama said, “Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by remaining silent.” Don't be afraid to let a girl speak for a while. Be silent, but be interested. Actively listen to what she says. It'll go a long way towards upping the attraction meter!
* Teasing/Playing around.
This is a great technique, especially if you don't know exactly what to talk about. Throw in an occasional joke or funny moment. I have a friend who has a great technique for handling silence. He laughs to himself, prompting the girl to ask, "What?" He'd say in a sly way that would invite curiosity, "Nah, you don't want to know. I'm in deep thought." She'd respond, "Tell me! Tell me!" So he'd do the whole Meow Mix song ("Meow meow meow meow..."). It's just one of many great ways to lighten the moment, and show you're a relaxed, none-too-serious person.
* Last but not least, sex.
One relationship guru brilliantly says, “TALKING about sex is the first step towards having it.” Ask her if she’s a bad girl, or what’s the craziest thing she’s ever done in her life—with a bit of innuendo added into your voice. This isn't the kind of stuff you want to talk about right away, but when things are going good, it's great to show your "inner bad boy". She’ll know what you mean, and get excited thinking about it.
Likewise, here are some topics that you SHOULD NOT talk about:
- Offensive humor. Chris Rock's racial humor may be entertaining, but it's not a good topic for a first date!
- Politics. There's nothing to be gained by arguing over issues and parties.
- Past girlfriends. An absolute no-no. All you do is play a game that makes one of you jealous or suspicious of the other. Stay away from this topic, but if she DOES ask you about past girlfriends, talk respectfully about them so you don't come off as an insecure whiner.
- Inside jokes between you and your friends. They're called inside jokes for a reason--keep them that way!
- Anything that could be interpreted as geeky or dorky, such as science-fiction. Unless you know for a fact that she's into science fiction and comic books, keep it to yourself for now. The last thing you want to come across as is a geek!
- Too much about yourself, your possessions, how great you are, etc. Bragging only makes you look insecure. Even if you own a yacht, don't talk about it like it makes you any more special than her.
C. How We Say It
Of course, none of these topics, particularly funny stories, are gonna work if you don't know to deliver them. Delivery in speech is crucial. People who have good delivery can make an otherwise dull story an exciting one. I highly suggest you read "Voice Power" by the aforementioned Renee grant Williams. Here are some tips she recommends:
1. Use consonants.
That is, accent your speech. If you're talking about a great concert you went to, no one will believe it's that great if you say in a monotone voice, "That was a great concert." That puts people to sleep. Instead, say, "Man, that was a grrrreat concert!" The Tony the Tiger voice. If she says something, don't say as if you're bored, "Really." Say, "Rrrreally?", then, with emphasis, "WOW." It works!
2. Don't use unnecessary words and details.
If you're talking about a time when you and your friends went to Cancun, don't bother with the unnecessary details like the food they served on the plane, the wait for the taxi, or the sheets they used in the hotel. Get to the point!
3. Silence.
As Williams says, Silence does speak a thousand words. There's nothing better than the "power pause", especially when trying to captivate your listeners with a story of bravery. You can lead up to something powerful, then pause while the girl takes it in and after a few seconds of silence, say, "But that's not all..." Or
4. Drama and comedy.
Don't be afraid to sprinkle some dramatic and comedic flair into your speech. If you're talking about a goofy incident with your buddy, laugh along with it. When you laugh, it's a cue for other people to laugh. Chris Rock does this all the time; he laughs at his own scripts, and it has the power of making his routine all the funnier. Likewise, if you're telling a dramatic story of something amazing like rescuing people from a car accident, talk with conviction and suspense. It really goes a long way towards spellbinding women; they love a great story, especially a heroic one.
5. Use body language.
It's not enough to talk with your arms beside your side and your butt on your seat. Talk with your arms, with your hands, your body language creating a sense of excitement. It's a fact: enthusiasm is contagious. So show some enthusiasm with your vocal and body languages!
Finally, change your pitch. If things are going well, lower your pitch, give her your best Barry White. If you're talking about a funny moment, a louder, more excited pitch is probably best. Recognize the mood and alter your voice to conform to it.
Congratulations! You're on your way to making great impressions on great women. Recognize the power of speech and appearance, and you're bound to succeed.
Don't forget, if you want to learn more about making yourself unforgettable to women by making unforgettable impressions, visit my website at "How to Be Irresistible to Women."
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
Now it's YOUR turn!
James
Author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women"
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
********************************************************************
About the author:
James is the author of the latest edition of "How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM."His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.
The "How to Be Irresistible to Women" package offers single men a dynamic and comprehensive tool-kit to attract women and establish an honest and supportive relationship. You can learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
So if you want to impress women, you're gonna have to carefully think about how you present yourself. Let's look at each category.
A. How We Look
Whether you like it or not, dress is crucial. It says a lot about you: whether you care about how you look, or you don't. But you don't have to dress like a Hollywood celebrity to look good.
Here are some tips on how to dress for success:
1. Get a female friend or sister to help you pick your clothes.
If you don't know what to wear, get someone who does know! Ask a female friend or acquaintance to go shopping with you. She's sure to be flattered, and if you reward her with a gift certificate or DVD, she'll be all the more motivated to help you out.
2. Check out the latest styles.
Go to the bar or club and see what others are wearing. Observe what the guys who do well with women wear. Look in magazines and catalogs and see what it's in style.
3. Wear what conforms to your identity.
Hey, if you're the hardworking, businessman type, wear formal clothes that accent your career. If you're the snowboarder/skater type, wear grungy clothes that accent your loose, laid-back persona. And if you're really into music, don't be afraid to express yourself with the types of clothes that rock stars and musicians like to wear! You can't force a style upon yourself; clothes are a form of marketing, so market yourself like you would a product, in the way that best shows what you're all about.
The same goes for your hair: If you want to convey a clean-cut, crisp image, then you might want to shave and cut your hair short. But if you're trying to convey a rebel image, a goatee, long hair, and tattoos are probably in order.
And speaking of tattoos, don't forget that they are an ACCESSORY that further helps you to market yourself. Tats, jewelry, and even hats are great ways to mold your image to the man you want to present to women. If you're a snowboarder, for example, a wool hat says "Cool". Or if you're an aspiring rapper or musician, a doo rag has a place in your wardrobe. Consider the accessories that best conform to you as a person.
B. What We Say
Here are some great topics to talk about:
* Your dreams.
Let a girl know that you have a purpose and direction in your life, that you're not a wandering bum!
* Funny stories.
Humor is a great aphrodisiac. Think about some funny things that have happened in your life. But make sure your delivery is good--more below.
* Her.
The Dalai Lama said, “Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by remaining silent.” Don't be afraid to let a girl speak for a while. Be silent, but be interested. Actively listen to what she says. It'll go a long way towards upping the attraction meter!
* Teasing/Playing around.
This is a great technique, especially if you don't know exactly what to talk about. Throw in an occasional joke or funny moment. I have a friend who has a great technique for handling silence. He laughs to himself, prompting the girl to ask, "What?" He'd say in a sly way that would invite curiosity, "Nah, you don't want to know. I'm in deep thought." She'd respond, "Tell me! Tell me!" So he'd do the whole Meow Mix song ("Meow meow meow meow..."). It's just one of many great ways to lighten the moment, and show you're a relaxed, none-too-serious person.
* Last but not least, sex.
One relationship guru brilliantly says, “TALKING about sex is the first step towards having it.” Ask her if she’s a bad girl, or what’s the craziest thing she’s ever done in her life—with a bit of innuendo added into your voice. This isn't the kind of stuff you want to talk about right away, but when things are going good, it's great to show your "inner bad boy". She’ll know what you mean, and get excited thinking about it.
Likewise, here are some topics that you SHOULD NOT talk about:
- Offensive humor. Chris Rock's racial humor may be entertaining, but it's not a good topic for a first date!
- Politics. There's nothing to be gained by arguing over issues and parties.
- Past girlfriends. An absolute no-no. All you do is play a game that makes one of you jealous or suspicious of the other. Stay away from this topic, but if she DOES ask you about past girlfriends, talk respectfully about them so you don't come off as an insecure whiner.
- Inside jokes between you and your friends. They're called inside jokes for a reason--keep them that way!
- Anything that could be interpreted as geeky or dorky, such as science-fiction. Unless you know for a fact that she's into science fiction and comic books, keep it to yourself for now. The last thing you want to come across as is a geek!
- Too much about yourself, your possessions, how great you are, etc. Bragging only makes you look insecure. Even if you own a yacht, don't talk about it like it makes you any more special than her.
C. How We Say It
Of course, none of these topics, particularly funny stories, are gonna work if you don't know to deliver them. Delivery in speech is crucial. People who have good delivery can make an otherwise dull story an exciting one. I highly suggest you read "Voice Power" by the aforementioned Renee grant Williams. Here are some tips she recommends:
1. Use consonants.
That is, accent your speech. If you're talking about a great concert you went to, no one will believe it's that great if you say in a monotone voice, "That was a great concert." That puts people to sleep. Instead, say, "Man, that was a grrrreat concert!" The Tony the Tiger voice. If she says something, don't say as if you're bored, "Really." Say, "Rrrreally?", then, with emphasis, "WOW." It works!
2. Don't use unnecessary words and details.
If you're talking about a time when you and your friends went to Cancun, don't bother with the unnecessary details like the food they served on the plane, the wait for the taxi, or the sheets they used in the hotel. Get to the point!
3. Silence.
As Williams says, Silence does speak a thousand words. There's nothing better than the "power pause", especially when trying to captivate your listeners with a story of bravery. You can lead up to something powerful, then pause while the girl takes it in and after a few seconds of silence, say, "But that's not all..." Or
4. Drama and comedy.
Don't be afraid to sprinkle some dramatic and comedic flair into your speech. If you're talking about a goofy incident with your buddy, laugh along with it. When you laugh, it's a cue for other people to laugh. Chris Rock does this all the time; he laughs at his own scripts, and it has the power of making his routine all the funnier. Likewise, if you're telling a dramatic story of something amazing like rescuing people from a car accident, talk with conviction and suspense. It really goes a long way towards spellbinding women; they love a great story, especially a heroic one.
5. Use body language.
It's not enough to talk with your arms beside your side and your butt on your seat. Talk with your arms, with your hands, your body language creating a sense of excitement. It's a fact: enthusiasm is contagious. So show some enthusiasm with your vocal and body languages!
Finally, change your pitch. If things are going well, lower your pitch, give her your best Barry White. If you're talking about a funny moment, a louder, more excited pitch is probably best. Recognize the mood and alter your voice to conform to it.
Congratulations! You're on your way to making great impressions on great women. Recognize the power of speech and appearance, and you're bound to succeed.
Don't forget, if you want to learn more about making yourself unforgettable to women by making unforgettable impressions, visit my website at "How to Be Irresistible to Women."
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
Now it's YOUR turn!
James
Author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women"
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
********************************************************************
About the author:
James is the author of the latest edition of "How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM."His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.
The "How to Be Irresistible to Women" package offers single men a dynamic and comprehensive tool-kit to attract women and establish an honest and supportive relationship. You can learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
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