Showing posts with label partner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label partner. Show all posts
Friday, 5 March 2010
How Will I Ever Fix My Relationship If My Partner Isn't Interested?
It takes two to create a relationship right? And of course it takes two to make it last. So if you and your partner are having major problems you may be asking, "How will I ever fix my relationship if my partner isn't interested?" Maybe the two of you have broken up or separated. Maybe you are married and your spouse is asking for a divorce. If you are still committed to saving the relationship, you are already half way there!
Do you remember when the two of you were first dating and the wonderful feelings associated with that? That may seem like a really long time ago, or it may have been just a few months ago. The point is that the same environment that attracted the two of you to each other must be cared for if it is going to last and remain strong. What has happened is that your partner or spouse no longer enjoys the environment the two of you are in, more than likely because it has changed. More on this in a minute.
Do you find yourself battling unsuccessfully in an attempt to save your relationship while your partner appears either indifferent or uninterested? This is the problem. The more you push for problem resolution, the more they are pulling away. Isn't that what seems to be happening? Think about it for a second. You cling to them because you are craving something you aren't getting. They pull away and you get your feelings hurt. The more this happens, the more frustrated and dissatisfied you are and the more they feel like the relationship isn't working for them either! This pattern will continue until the breakup ultimately happens.
There is a better way. You don't have to continue with this pattern any more. You can pinpoint the exact reasons the relationship changed and learn how to go back to the way things were when you first fell in love. Regardless of whether your partner or spouse seems interested in saving the relationship or not, there is a proven and specific action plan that will practically guarantee your success. Quite simply, it works even if your partner isn't doing anything!
I'd like to tell you more about this. Check out my site at Makeup Stay Together and I'll tell you where you can find it. And don't forget my free gift "4 Critical Steps" you must take following the break up. Best Wishes and see you on the other side!
Do you remember when the two of you were first dating and the wonderful feelings associated with that? That may seem like a really long time ago, or it may have been just a few months ago. The point is that the same environment that attracted the two of you to each other must be cared for if it is going to last and remain strong. What has happened is that your partner or spouse no longer enjoys the environment the two of you are in, more than likely because it has changed. More on this in a minute.
Do you find yourself battling unsuccessfully in an attempt to save your relationship while your partner appears either indifferent or uninterested? This is the problem. The more you push for problem resolution, the more they are pulling away. Isn't that what seems to be happening? Think about it for a second. You cling to them because you are craving something you aren't getting. They pull away and you get your feelings hurt. The more this happens, the more frustrated and dissatisfied you are and the more they feel like the relationship isn't working for them either! This pattern will continue until the breakup ultimately happens.
There is a better way. You don't have to continue with this pattern any more. You can pinpoint the exact reasons the relationship changed and learn how to go back to the way things were when you first fell in love. Regardless of whether your partner or spouse seems interested in saving the relationship or not, there is a proven and specific action plan that will practically guarantee your success. Quite simply, it works even if your partner isn't doing anything!
I'd like to tell you more about this. Check out my site at Makeup Stay Together and I'll tell you where you can find it. And don't forget my free gift "4 Critical Steps" you must take following the break up. Best Wishes and see you on the other side!
Monday, 22 February 2010
When You Will Finally Get Over Your Ex-Partner
Here's my answer:
"When you finally fall in love with someone you're even more attracted to than your ex."
Of course, this may not happen right away. In fact, it may take a long while. But according to my years of experience as a dating coach, in most cases it will eventually happen. There'll almost always be someone who you'll end up liking more than your ex. Almost always.
But here's the catch: you won't find that special someone if you keep on sitting at home and whining over your ex. I know it's hard, but you just have to:
1) Get out there and work on your social life again.
2) Meet new people.
3) Flirt with and see other girls/men casually.
It's true that you may not find a new partner that you'll like as much as you liked your ex right away, but at least you'll be on your way!
"When you finally fall in love with someone you're even more attracted to than your ex."
Of course, this may not happen right away. In fact, it may take a long while. But according to my years of experience as a dating coach, in most cases it will eventually happen. There'll almost always be someone who you'll end up liking more than your ex. Almost always.
But here's the catch: you won't find that special someone if you keep on sitting at home and whining over your ex. I know it's hard, but you just have to:
1) Get out there and work on your social life again.
2) Meet new people.
3) Flirt with and see other girls/men casually.
It's true that you may not find a new partner that you'll like as much as you liked your ex right away, but at least you'll be on your way!
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