Friday, 12 February 2010
How To Stay Together With Your Partner
Here are a couple of tips on how to keep your partner's interest in you high:
a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.
Big mistake.
Attraction comes and goes. Just because your partner was attracted to you when he/she first met you doesn’t mean he/she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do anything to keep the attraction high.
b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying attention to their women and end up losing them.
Don’t make the same mistake.
Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things. Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…” Compliment your partner when he/she does something good.
c) Talk to Partner: Have at least one good talk every week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park. The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more important.
This will help you solidify the bond with him/her. I don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call your partner”, etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your partner once a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns sour.
d) Remain in control: Some guys/ladies use the techniques I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy man/woman they’ve always wanted, only to give up their control and start kissing their partner's ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in control of yourself still applies after the initial courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man/woman!
By the way, remember that when I say “stay in control”, I don’t mean you should “control your partner”. What I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.
e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please your partner with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love. I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper your partner with money. It will eventually ruin your relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.
a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.
Big mistake.
Attraction comes and goes. Just because your partner was attracted to you when he/she first met you doesn’t mean he/she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do anything to keep the attraction high.
b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying attention to their women and end up losing them.
Don’t make the same mistake.
Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things. Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…” Compliment your partner when he/she does something good.
c) Talk to Partner: Have at least one good talk every week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park. The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more important.
This will help you solidify the bond with him/her. I don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call your partner”, etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your partner once a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns sour.
d) Remain in control: Some guys/ladies use the techniques I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy man/woman they’ve always wanted, only to give up their control and start kissing their partner's ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in control of yourself still applies after the initial courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man/woman!
By the way, remember that when I say “stay in control”, I don’t mean you should “control your partner”. What I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.
e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please your partner with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love. I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper your partner with money. It will eventually ruin your relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.
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