How To Stay Together With Your Partner

Here are a couple of tips on how to keep your partner's interest in you high:

a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting once they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into a routine.

Big mistake.

Attraction comes and goes. Just because your partner was attracted to you when he/she first met you doesn’t mean he/she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do anything to keep the attraction high.

b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying attention to their women and end up losing them.

Don’t make the same mistake.

Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things. Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…” Compliment your partner when he/she does something good.

c) Talk to Partner: Have at least one good talk every week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park. The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more important.

This will help you solidify the bond with him/her. I don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call your partner”, etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your partner once a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns sour.

d) Remain in control: Some guys/ladies use the techniques I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy man/woman they’ve always wanted, only to give up their control and start kissing their partner's ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in control of yourself still applies after the initial courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man/woman!

By the way, remember that when I say “stay in control”, I don’t mean you should “control your partner”. What I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.

e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please your partner with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love. I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper your partner with money. It will eventually ruin your relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.

Romantic Love and Pre-Commitment

Love figures in a big way in everyone’s lives. Some dream about it, some romanticize it and others deny it. But it is an always in vogue topic of discussion. Though the one ‘right’ person theory might be a myth but that does not mean that there is not more than one right person for you.

So how does one define that all encompassing ‘right’ factor in a partner? Well it might be defined as a kind of compatibility, which allows you to flourish and thrive in each other’s company. It is probably the quality, which makes it a solid team, where it is not the individual but the final end, which matters.

Such bonds are established on far stronger stuff than mere attraction, though this is a large and significant part of it. It is rather based on simple facts of common ideals, dreams and beliefs.
There has always been a tendency to exalt the entire notion of love in all mediums, literature, television or theatre.

But this entirely focuses that early phase of devotion passion and jubilation. But this stage in real life is short in duration as soon the high is gone and matters more practical have to be handled.

So, if one mistakes this initial stage of exhilarating romantic moments for the actual deal then it can lead to the downfall of the relationship. But this romantic phase serves a good purpose in reminding and holding exemplary importance regarding the potential that this relationship can possess when bad times are nigh. Today happiness has become such a sort after commodity that people will do and believe anything for that. They will agree to any terms so that they never have to feel pain, be hurt or get disappointed. That is why they are ready to jump at and grab any clauses that prevent these in their relationships, and make them work anyhow.

That is why so many people today are in a pre-committed state where they are not married but are going out only with each other. This makes sure that no matter what, they have the right to exclusivity with each other, but if it does not work out, they are free to go their own ways without dealing with an otherwise messy divorce.