What If Your Partner Is Only Attracted To Jerks

Do you know partners who seem to be "only" attracted to jerks? (Come on now, I am sure everybody knows at least a couple.)

Today I have a piece of golden advice for dating such partner:

Don't do it!

If a one-night stand or a short-term relationship is all that you're looking for, well, I'm not going to stop you. (Still, I want you to be VERY careful!)

But if you're looking to start a long-term relationship with a partner who has a long history of dating jerks or the "abusive type", then I urge you to rethink.
Because the fact that he/she's been attracted to these guys/ladies is a sign that he/she may have deeper problems than you think.

It is perfectly normal for a man/woman to be attracted to a man who acts like a challenge.

It is also quite normal for a man/woman to feel attraction for a jerk.

But a man/woman who keeps going back to dating jerks...well...let's just say that that is NOT normal.

It shows the man/woman LIKES being mistreated because of some deeper psychological issues. (Usually it's because of low self-esteem, but there are other reasons as well.)

Dating a man/woman like this is like holding a time bomb in your hands - you never know when he/she's going to blow up.

If you're dating such a man/woman, feel free to send me an email and I'll yell at you.

As a "Smart Dater", there's absolutely no reason for you to tolerate these "baggage women/men".

Date men/women who are not good "to" you, but good FOR you instead!