What If You Suspect Your Partner Is After Your Money?

Today's tip is going to be very short.

A question that I get from my readers *all the time* is, "What if you suspect your partner is after my money?"

The answer is very simple with this one:

DO A TEST!

Cut back the amount of money you spend on him/her. Don't buy anything for him/her. Don't take him/her out to expensive dinners. Cut out on your "quality of life" with him/her while maintaining the same kind of attention you have given him/her in the past.

Then watch her VERY closely to see how she reacts.

Does his/her attraction seem to drop? Or does she still enjoying being with you?

If he/she's still happy with you, then it shows you did NOT need to pamper him/her with materialistic things to attract him/her to begin with. (You've wasted all that money, buddy!) Good. Keep it that way and use your HEART instead of your wallet to attract him/her from now on.

But if he/she's dissatisfied or seems to whine about money a lot, then it's a sign he/she could be a gold digger.

In that case, keep dating him/her WITHOUT spending another dime on him/her. If he/she stays, all right. Good for him/her.

But if he/she wants to leave you, then let him/her leave. Gold diggers are really not worth it!