Monday, 1 February 2010
9 Signs It's Time To End A Relationship
Posted by Eleyinte Samuel at 04:28
1) Everybody around you is telling you your partner is not for you:
Yes, I know it’s you who’s in love with your partner, not them. But if everybody thinks there’s something wrong with your partner, perhaps they’re right. Don’t forget that third party opinions are usually more objective than yours.
2) Your partner is a bit crazy/unstable or has major character flaws.
Remember…you don’t need any more emotional baggage in your life.
3) You’re trying too hard to change yourself for your partner.
I’m sorry, but if you’re constantly trying to change yourself for your partner, maybe you’re just not the right person for him/her.
4) You’re trying too hard to make your partner care for you.
If you spend every moment obsessing over your partner to keep her interested, you’re definitely not the right person for him/her.
5) You’re always arguing with your partner.
Dating should be fun. So if you spent more time arguing with your partner than having fun when you were dating, maybe it’s better to move on.
6) You feel you’ve lowered your standards for your partner.
If you think you're "too good" for a spouse, then raise your bar and find someone better.
8) You feel like it’s becoming a chore to take care of your partner but you do not want to break up because you do not want to hurt him/her.
Guess what? You will eventually break up with him/her if you feel this way. Better to do it now.
9) You’re just with him/her because you're afraid of being single again.
So you would rather be in a bad relationship? Not a valid excuse.
Find a partner you're actually IN LOVE with instead!
Yes, I know it’s you who’s in love with your partner, not them. But if everybody thinks there’s something wrong with your partner, perhaps they’re right. Don’t forget that third party opinions are usually more objective than yours.
2) Your partner is a bit crazy/unstable or has major character flaws.
Remember…you don’t need any more emotional baggage in your life.
3) You’re trying too hard to change yourself for your partner.
I’m sorry, but if you’re constantly trying to change yourself for your partner, maybe you’re just not the right person for him/her.
4) You’re trying too hard to make your partner care for you.
If you spend every moment obsessing over your partner to keep her interested, you’re definitely not the right person for him/her.
5) You’re always arguing with your partner.
Dating should be fun. So if you spent more time arguing with your partner than having fun when you were dating, maybe it’s better to move on.
6) You feel you’ve lowered your standards for your partner.
If you think you're "too good" for a spouse, then raise your bar and find someone better.
8) You feel like it’s becoming a chore to take care of your partner but you do not want to break up because you do not want to hurt him/her.
Guess what? You will eventually break up with him/her if you feel this way. Better to do it now.
9) You’re just with him/her because you're afraid of being single again.
So you would rather be in a bad relationship? Not a valid excuse.
Find a partner you're actually IN LOVE with instead!
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