Monday, 1 March 2010
Rules For Dating and Attracting
Relax, it's just a date.
But in reality, we're just as nervous as you are after finding out that she finally agreed to go out with you on a Saturday night. First dates are so exciting that it sends shivers down our spines - making us panic about what to wear, what to say, where to take her and which part of our body we should kick ourselves in case the date turns out really disastrous.
The jitters will be there but let's face it; this is an opportunity to give her a night she'll never forget. So muster all the courage you have because here are a couple of things you must remember to have her aching for a second date.
Impress but not too much - Dating is like a business meeting where you advertise yourself to her. It's ok to put your best foot forward but remember that selling yourself is different from selling life insurance. Share things about yourself but always try to know more about her. Women like it when men ask about themselves so keep asking her questions. Chicks dig it when you show interest in them.
Hold the good stuff - A woman appreciates it when you tell her how gorgeous she looks but don't spend the night spoiling her with your sweet gestures. She likes nice guys but being too nice is always a big turnoff. You remember the old adage that goes "Nice guys finish last," right?
Listen to what she says - Give her a generous amount of time to talk and make sure that you listen. If your thoughts drift away that you ask her the question she just answered, you'll just tick her off for sure. Just maintain interest in what she says and she'll gladly listen when it's your turn to speak up.
It's in the eyes - For experts, eye-contact enables you to connect personally with another person. So when you talk to her, stare at those eyes as much as you can. Eye contact connotes a lot of things: trust, confidence, respect and so much more.
End on a high note - According to studies, people usually remember a certain incident in their lives through the way they felt at the end. What better way to make end your date but in a warm manner she'll always remember?
Here's how to do it. Don't just say goodbye and buzz her on the cheek. Tell her how much you enjoyed the night like "I had a really awesome time, Katy (do mention her name!). It was great to meet you." End the night with the same enthusiasm you had when you started and she might just hug you tighter when she bids you goodbye.
For more tips on how to impress women not just on dates, and how to get women, visit http://www.sinnsofattraction.com for free tutorial videos.
But in reality, we're just as nervous as you are after finding out that she finally agreed to go out with you on a Saturday night. First dates are so exciting that it sends shivers down our spines - making us panic about what to wear, what to say, where to take her and which part of our body we should kick ourselves in case the date turns out really disastrous.
The jitters will be there but let's face it; this is an opportunity to give her a night she'll never forget. So muster all the courage you have because here are a couple of things you must remember to have her aching for a second date.
Impress but not too much - Dating is like a business meeting where you advertise yourself to her. It's ok to put your best foot forward but remember that selling yourself is different from selling life insurance. Share things about yourself but always try to know more about her. Women like it when men ask about themselves so keep asking her questions. Chicks dig it when you show interest in them.
Hold the good stuff - A woman appreciates it when you tell her how gorgeous she looks but don't spend the night spoiling her with your sweet gestures. She likes nice guys but being too nice is always a big turnoff. You remember the old adage that goes "Nice guys finish last," right?
Listen to what she says - Give her a generous amount of time to talk and make sure that you listen. If your thoughts drift away that you ask her the question she just answered, you'll just tick her off for sure. Just maintain interest in what she says and she'll gladly listen when it's your turn to speak up.
It's in the eyes - For experts, eye-contact enables you to connect personally with another person. So when you talk to her, stare at those eyes as much as you can. Eye contact connotes a lot of things: trust, confidence, respect and so much more.
End on a high note - According to studies, people usually remember a certain incident in their lives through the way they felt at the end. What better way to make end your date but in a warm manner she'll always remember?
Here's how to do it. Don't just say goodbye and buzz her on the cheek. Tell her how much you enjoyed the night like "I had a really awesome time, Katy (do mention her name!). It was great to meet you." End the night with the same enthusiasm you had when you started and she might just hug you tighter when she bids you goodbye.
For more tips on how to impress women not just on dates, and how to get women, visit http://www.sinnsofattraction.com for free tutorial videos.
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For dating be straight forward make her feel comfortable do rush to talk and cover all the important topics on the first day only see what she likes and do not talk according to it. Before leaving make sure to tell her how much you enjoyed her company.......
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