Thursday 18 March 2010

10 Deadly Relationship Mistakes That Cause Breakups

Mistake #3 – Letting The Chemistry Die

A common myth I hear all the time is that passion and attraction always turn into commitment and friendship over time.

I strongly disagree.

After years of experience of working with couples around the world, I can tell you that in every relationship that lasts, there's always a certain amount of passion and attraction.

Even though the passion may not be as strong as when the couple first met, there will STILL be attraction and chemistry...

Without this chemistry, a relationship will quickly turn into nothing more but a "friendship”. When that happens, the passion will die, the relationship will become hollow, and both parties will be more tempted to look for "fun" outside the relationship.

Here's what I believe in: The couple that plays is the couple that stays.

It doesn't matter how long you've been together with a person, be it months, years, or decades. If you want a healthy relationship, you must NOT become lazy and let the romance die. You have to keep it going.

With that said, here are a few ways to romance your partner:
1) Have a candlelight dinner.
2) Go star or moon gazing.
3) Compliment your partner in front of other people.
4) Hug and your partner when they come home.
5) Give your partner a terrific massage.
6) Surprise your partner by doing their chores without asking. Use the free time to snuggle.
7) Have a picnic.
8) Flirt with your partner and be playful.

Spend time to have fun with your partner every week, no matter how busy or stressed you may be!

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