Wednesday 3 June 2009

Love,Sex and Dating

The Way You Feel or Think Can Be Deceitful.
Some people think or feel that the human heart has infallible romantic judgement.They say,'just listen to your heart','you will know when it's real love!'.It is a pity the facts contradict this notion.In a book i read recently,a survey was taken in which about 2000 young people(ages 18-24)reported having experienced an average of seven romantic involvements up to that time.Most admitted that their past romances were mere infatuation-a passing,fading emotion.Yet,these youths"invariably described their current experience as love".Most,though,will likely one day view their current relationship as they did their past ones-as mere infatuations.
It is disheartening that thousands of couples every year marry under the illusion of being 'in love',only to find out thereafter that they have seriously erred.Infatuation lures unsuspecting men and women into eventual ruined marriages.
In most cases,the judgement of our heart is misguided or misdirected.You can only escape the danger of making wrong choices when you stop to base your judgement of love what you think or feel.And learn the difference between infatuation and love.

Is It Love Or Infatuation.
A 16-year-old girl,Tracy,says "When you are infatuated with a person,you think that everything they do is just perfect".Infatuation is blind and it likes to stay that way.It doesn't like to look at reality",admits 24-year-old Calvin.
Infatuation is unrealistic,it is counterfeit love and self-centered.Such persons are likely to say:'I can't believe how fantastic this is 'or,"she really makes me feel good'.Notice how many times either "I" or "me" is used?A relationship based on selfishness is bound to fail.True love is just the exact opposite of all that has been aforementioned above.
Love is not selfish nor self-centered.It is true that couples may have strong romantic feelings and mutual attraction.But these are balanced by reason and deep respect for each other.when you are really in love ,you care just as much for the other person's welfare and happiness as you do for your own.True love does not allow overpowering emotion to destroy good and sound judgement.

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