Tuesday 13 April 2010
Mistake #10 – Not Compromising
As a couple, you should be flexible and compromise for each other. In order for the relationship to remain healthy and strong, you must both learn to compromise from time to time.
If you aren’t willing to be flexible, it means you are either not mature enough to be in a serious relationship (flaw in your character) or you just don’t like the person enough to compromise. The same goes for your partner.
Here are two ways to compromise:
1) Find the middle ground. Take the “average” between your differences and meet each other half way.
2) Alternate. You compromise this time, your partner compromises next time.
If you do choose the second way, remember that it should be “balanced” over time.
Even if one side is pushier than the other, both parties should make just about the same amount of compromises over time. If one party constantly gives in, there will be a power imbalance, which will lead to a loss of romantic respect and eventually a loss of attraction.
If you aren’t willing to be flexible, it means you are either not mature enough to be in a serious relationship (flaw in your character) or you just don’t like the person enough to compromise. The same goes for your partner.
Here are two ways to compromise:
1) Find the middle ground. Take the “average” between your differences and meet each other half way.
2) Alternate. You compromise this time, your partner compromises next time.
If you do choose the second way, remember that it should be “balanced” over time.
Even if one side is pushier than the other, both parties should make just about the same amount of compromises over time. If one party constantly gives in, there will be a power imbalance, which will lead to a loss of romantic respect and eventually a loss of attraction.
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